Saturday, February 14, 2009

Saturday, February 14

It’s been a few days since I have had a chance to post an update, but I think it’s fitting that on a day symbolized by a heart, I found myself waking this morning with Taylor weighing heavily on my own.

The last few days Taylor has been very comfortable. When she has been awake, her fussy spells have been less and less. Today she slept a lot and was pretty restful and when she was awake she seemed to be more relaxed.

Tammy’s folks are going to stay with Taylor on Sunday, so Jeff and Tammy can both spend time with the boys together. The boys haven’t had much time with both of them together the past month so this will be a nice treat for them. The family has been so blessed to have family and friends around to help out when needed. We thank the Lord for these blessings.

There has been some medical related news over the past couple of days to share. First, we found out the results from the vision and hearing tests that were performed. According to the tests, Taylor’s right ear is operating normally, but her left ear was abnormal. And unfortunately, both eyes came back as functioning abnormal. So what does this mean? From what I understand, the brain is receiving the information about the test (i.e. flashing light in her eyes), but is currently not responding back. At this point they really can’t say how significant this will be, so the diagnoses remains that it is abnormal and only time will tell us how significant it really is.

They also performed a barium x-ray on Taylor. The x-rays show that Taylor’s liver is also enlarged. A barium x-ray is a radiographic (x-ray) examination of the gastrointestinal tract. The use of barium with standard x-rays contributes to the visibility of various characteristics of the GI tract. Barium is a dry, white, chalky, metallic powder that is mixed with water to make barium liquid. Barium is an x-ray absorber and appears white on x-ray film. When instilled into the GI tract, barium coats the inside wall of the esophagus, stomach, large intestine, and/or small intestine so that the inside wall lining, size, shape, contour, and patency (openness) are visible on x-ray. This process shows differences that might not be seen on standard x-rays.


Perhaps the biggest thing to communicate is around the Gastrointestinal Tube surgery that we have been waiting to proceed with. The Rehabilitation unit back at Pitt County Memorial Hospital in Greenville will not accept Taylor until she has this surgery.

Jeff and Tammy have a decision to make and I know it is weighing heavy on their hearts.

Postponing the surgery any longer is costing critical time for Taylor’s rehabilitation. However, the GI doctor’s opinion is that Taylor’s heart is not strong enough for the surgery. However, the Cardiologists are telling them that the improvements in her heart will be measured in months, not weeks and they can’t afford to wait months for Taylor to start rehab. They are waiting to talk to the anesthesiologist to see what his opinion is, but if they do move forward with the surgery they will have the best cardiologist experts in the room just in case.

As good as some days seem it is apparent that Taylor still has a lot of challenges to overcome. I pray that Jeff and Tammy continue to lift Taylor up to the Lord. Place the burden in their hearts in the Lords hands. And on a day that symbolizes love, I pray that Taylor not only feels the love that Jeff, Tammy, and all our family and friends have for her, but that she also feels the love of Christ in her heart.

“Cast your burden upon the LORD and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken.”
Psalm 55:22

Pass the Love… Here is a Taylor in her Valentine outfit, she is such a beautiful child.


God Bless!
~

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Happy Valentine's Day Taylor and family. You are a beautiful girl Taylor. God bless you. Love from
Rita and Roger

Anonymous said...

As always, thank you so much for the update. There are so many people that check this site religiously, waiting for any and every word on Taylor. Thank you for your diligence, for we really do appreciate this! Jeff and Tammy, so many times a day I pray for you, for your boys, and for beautiful Taylor. I also pray for patience, strenth, and tenacity for you all. Taylor is such a testament to the Lord's work and ability. Depsite the set backs, the good news is just that--GOOD. She seems to be more peaceful, and the last couple pictures posted are some of Taylor smiling. How awesome is she to be able to smaile through this all. I feel like she is saying, "I am gonna be okay guys. I am loved, and I know that. I have 2 wonderful parents and 2 brothers that love me more than anything. I have people all over the world praying for me. I also know Jesus loves me". I feel she is at peace, and knows how much she is loved and prayed for. The Lord has put a "peace" in her heart, for he knows how hard she has been fighting. While he continues to work on her precious little heart and body, we will continue to pray. We have been told that the family has some difficult decisions to make...hand them over to the Lord, and he will take care of them for you. Taylor is such a beautiful, precious baby girl. She, as well as both Tammy and Jeff, is an inspiration to us all. There is so much love that everyone is sending her way. As always, I pray for you, and just know that a miracle is coming ya'lls way. Take care, keep the faith, and keep your heads lifted towards the sky...You know, children are so very special to the Lord, and he watches over each and every one of them. Each one has an angel that reports back to the Lord, and Taylor's relays every word. He knows everything, and he is working on her. Just you wait! Happy Valentine's Day!
Love,
The Buckley Family
Bill, Allison, and Liam

Anonymous said...

jackson;s family he mrs. whithead this is gerald i'm so sorry i don't know what to say but i can say i love you and your family i pray evry night that your baby lives hope to see you back in school soon i love you.

from:gerald jackson

Anonymous said...

I feel horrible...Carly just wrote a beautiful message to all of you and while I was trying to post it....you know the computer ate it!! :>:> Anyway from us to you....thinking and praying for you daily. We love you and miss you. Hang in there! Aunt Kelly and fam

Anonymous said...

Just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you and praying for you all each and every night. Miss you and love you!
~Lindsey, Andy, Kassidy and Braylee

Anonymous said...

How adorable!! I love the pictures, keep them coming!
Thank you so much for keeping us informed and up-to-date with her progress. We are praying hard for Taylor and for the two of you as well. It sounds like you are going to be making some medical decisions soon....just remember to open your heart to God and the answer will be right there for you. I do have to tell you....while praying with Brady the other night, I asked him who he wanted to bless and he said "Baby Taylor". I then asked why he thought we needed to pray for her and he said "she has a boo-boo in her heart". I just wanted you to know that all of us are praying! Take care of yourselves and let me know if there is anything we can do to help!
Love,
Misty

Anonymous said...

Dear Whiteheads,
We are so blessed by the updates and we can see that every day there is a miracle for and through Taylor! We know she will come through this and will have a great destiny. She is already inspiring so many of us, and she is still so small! You have prayer partners literally around the world who are lifting her up to the Lord every minute. And we are blessed to be able to pray and to do anything we can. We love and bless you! May God send you great peace, joy, and a new burst of energy every day!
Love and blessings,
Anne Chick and family

Anonymous said...

Tammy and Jeff,
You and Taylor are in our thoughts.
Love, Bridget & Andy