Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Wednesday, January 07 – Evening Update

From the conversations I’ve had with everyone I think the key word from today is Optimism. I was able to touch base with Jeff and both my parents, and Lindsey talked to Tammy for a bit. Everyone seems very upbeat and optimistic. The fact that they can take comfort in the fact that Taylor is in the Lord’s hands has everyone confident that Taylor is going to pull through.

The consensus seems to be that Taylor looks much better today. Much of the swelling has gone down and she looks much more like the Taylor we all remember and love. She is still in the ICU/critical condition and fighting with every ounce she has, but there were definitely some signs of hope. The doctors say she is still very sick and we have a long way to go yet, but her vitals are up from the previous day!

Taylor also lifted her left arm once and moved it again a second time. We are not sure what that means, but it’s got to be good news, right? The act seemed to make the nurses happy for everyone and brought a smile and hope to the family.

Today they received a consultation on the EEG results. The EEG did indicate damage to the basal ganglia area. From what I can tell from a quick web search, the basal ganglia are located deep within the cerebral hemispheres in the telencephalon region of the brain. The functions of this area are cognition and motor functions. At this point the degree of the damage is still not known, and the doctor stressed that ultimately Taylor will tell us over time. Infants are so resilient and we pray that god will mend pathways or create new ones. Tests also show that Taylor was having some small brain seizures that were not visible while you watched her. My understanding is that originally the doctors were not going to test for seizures as they didn’t think it was a possibility. Thanks to everyone’s prayers I think we saw the Lord’s divine intervention as the doctors changed their minds and did run the test. Now they are able to give Taylor medicine to stop the seizures and limit any further damage they may cause.

It also appears that Taylor’s left lung is not collapsed after all. It would now appear that the lung does not have room to fill as Taylor’s heart is currently enlarged which limits the room available for the lung. Hopefully as Taylor recovers the lung will regain the room needed to operate correctly.

Now that it is determined that Taylor does not have RSV, Jeff and Tammy can be housed at the Ronald McDonald House nearby the hospital which was some more good news. The hospital is not close to home, so Jeff and Tammy had been staying in a hotel nearby. This will provide a nice location nearby for the family to rest.

Jeff and Tammy’s co-workers and fellow educators in Onslow County have really stepped up to help the family. As I had posted earlier, Tammy had already used up her sick days and Jeff is getting close as well. Thanks to the generosity of the teachers in the Onslow County School District they have one less thing to be concerned with at the moment. Teachers from over 30 schools in the district have donated sick days for Tammy and Jeff to use! This is a huge weight off of Tammy and Jeff’s shoulders and our family cannot thank you all enough!

By God’s grace, Jeff and Tammy have seen extraordinary generosity from all over. When I talked to Jeff this evening, he expressed his sincere gratitude for everyone’s kind thoughts and most importantly all the Prayers. Everyday brings ups and downs and it is a constant emotional rollercoaster, but they are leaning heavily on their faith and ask that everyone continue to think of Taylor and keep her in your Prayers.

With God all things are possible...

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

Jeff, Tammy, and family: My heart goes out to you at this stressful time. Please know that I am thinking of and praying for you all each and every day.
Jeremiah 33:3 says: "Call unto me and I will answer thee and show thee great and mighty things thow knowest not." -kjv

Anonymous said...

That is right, OPTIMISM...with the Lord all things are possible! Babies are very resilient, and as we have already seen from Taylor, she is strong. Time will tell, but I feel in my heart that Taylor is going to TRULY be okay. God bless you all, and THANK YOU SO MUCH for this site...we are all very concerned and check it almost every hour! Take care of yourselves and Taylor...
Allison Buckley

Anonymous said...

Tim, Jaime, Blasi and Cole have been keeping me updated. Please know that Taylor is in my thoughts and prayers and my heart goes out to you. With the Lord watching over her, she'll get better every day. Take care.

Anonymous said...

Psalm 118: 13-14 & 24
"I was pushed back and about to fall, but the Lord helped me. The Lord is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation. This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." Thank you Whitehead family for this website, it is a godsend. My prayers go out to each and everyone of you. Jeff, Tammy, and family are extra special -- as are all of the Whitehead clan! Hugs! Great-Aunt Jan Duncan

Anonymous said...

My thoughts and prayers have been, and continue to be with Taylor and the Whitehead family. Thank you for taking the time to keep us updated. May God bless you!

Anonymous said...

Dear Tammy and Jeff, we love you and are praying constantly for Taylor's TOTAL recovery! THANK YOU for the updates. I'm sharing them with my prayer partners in over five different nations. We're getting the word out far and wide and we can't wait for the day when she is home with you and her big brothers! We're standing on the Bible verse, heal her and she will be healed, save her and she will be saved, for God is the One we are praising for EVERY improvement! (Jeremiah 17:14) Love and blessings, Anne Chick and family

Unknown said...

Dear Jeff and Tammy,
We are praying hard for Taylor -- she sounds like she is a fighter. God bless your family and your sweet baby girl!
Angie Dillon Genskow

Anonymous said...

Faith, Prayer, Love... the best medicine of all. Thinking of you... wishing we were closer to help out. God can do wonders... keep the Faith.. Love Aunt Cheryl and family

kim said...

Dear Jeff & Tammy ~ and all of the Whitehead Family,
We will keep you all in our prayers and send healing positive thoughts your way. She is a beautiful baby girl ~ a miracle for all that she is....
God Bless~
Kim Klocke Raso

Anonymous said...

Tammy & Jeff,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We pray for God to heal baby Taylor and to give both of you strength to endure this emotionally and physically draining time. We are just around the corner from Tanner and Tate and will be glad to lend a helping hand at any time.
God Bless,
Jennifer Whaley

Anonymous said...

Whiteheads-
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. We are praying for Taylor to continue to be the fighter that she has already showed she is.
Love and God Bless,
Stephanie and John Higley

Anonymous said...

Dear whitehead family you all are in my prayers. I am praying and standing for Taylor to have a full recovery.
God Bless
Megan Meadows